Hi, my name is Mike Reid. I'm dean of the College of Health and Human Performance
and I just want to take a few seconds to congratulate you on being a member of
the graduating class of 2020. Man, what a spring this has been, huh? None of us saw
this coming. Who knew that campus would be so disrupted? That all of us would have our
lives so disrupted? We're not on campus. I'm talking to you from my house. You're
probably at home with your family or you found someone else that you're crashing
with trying to make this spring happen. You're taking courses online, maybe you
had to sort out an internship. Despite all these challenges, despite the
disruption, despite being separated from many of your friends here on campus,
you've managed to make it happen. Congratulations. Congratulations on all
the online courses you've taken this semester, on the internship you may have
had to sort out this semester, congratulations on your perseverance and
your dedication and the resilience that you've shown as Florida Gators and HHP
alums. Please know how proud I am of you. Not just me but the entire faculty stand
shoulder to shoulder to congratulate you on this amazing accomplishment - no other
class ever at the University of Florida has had to
deal with what you've dealt with and yet you've succeeded. So you should be proud.
I'm sure that your family is. I'm sure that your friends are. I'm sure that in
your own ways privately, across this state and across the nation
you are celebrating this graduation. Please know that here in Gainesville we
celebrate with you. We're incredibly proud of you. We wish you every success
in the future. Come back and see us again soon.
We need to see your face on campus when time and circumstances permit. In
the interim, every best wish for a success in the future and Go Gators!
Hello 2020 graduates. I am Delisha Milton-Jones, Lady Gator
All-American, 17-year WNBA legend, two-time WNBA Champion for the Los
Angeles Sparks and two-time Gold Medal winning Olympic basketball player. I
attended University of Florida from 1993 to 1997. I studied sports management with a
minor in mass communications. Congratulations are in order -
and I'm here to bring you a message of love, hope, positivity during these trying
times we are all fighting through. As a Gator, we are built for times such as
these and there's no better moment to make a difference in this world as the
wonderfully gifted Class of 2020. The pandemic may have altered your
opportunity to celebrate with family and friends but I want you to stop at no
cost to enjoy this moment. You did it! Don't let anything, anyone, or any adverse
circumstances stop you from allowing your light to shine bright. Go forward
knowing you are made for success and leave your mark on this world in the
most positive fashion possible. Before I go, I want to leave you with two quotes
that have allowed me to persevere through life flawlessly.
The first being, "dependent upon your perspective, some of your greatest
victories come after some of your greatest moments of doubt and defeat."
Lastly, "success favors the bold." So what are you waiting on? There's a world out
there for you to conquer. You're made for this. Go bravely and let your inner Gator
growl. [chomp chomp chomp]
Hello Class of 2020, my name is Alfeil Felipe, or Alf, and as a fellow graduate,
I would like to congratulate you all on this amazing accomplishment. And although not
an ideal time were setting, let us celebrate our journey, the memories
created, friendships formed and the future ahead, even if that remains six feet
apart. Let us thank the people and pets that supported us through it all and
most importantly commemorate yourself; your triumphs against personal grief,
restless nights, or maybe that one professor who would and that 89.9. We made it. Now
before we all go in our separate paths, I want to leave you with an anecdote and a
message of comfort. Let's think back to how many of us began college finally
having independence, full of energy and no eye bags - life seemed great! Well for
me, it was all fun and games until I failed all my first exams, struggled to
find new friends and came this close to transferring back home. I mean who else
thought they'd peaked in high school? The "new semester, new me" motto could only get
me so far and I concluded the obvious: life just never goes as planned. Even now
our fantasized closure of graduation has perhaps been marred by disappointment
and unsaid goodbyes; however in journeys when we lose our sense of belonging
when backup plans fall short, I still believe there is hope in the midst of
uncertainty. Rather than preparing to take on new feats, find grounding before
moving forward. Specifically, I have found two tethers comfortable across my
journey. The first tether incorporates the accumulation of our experiences.
Recognize the times when we have surpassed sorrow and tragedy - how we have
grown from hardships, successes and the moments when we just try to get by. The
second tether is our relationships. Relationships symbolize our values and
the influences upon our lives. While we have personal relationships that help
promote our character, also recognize the moral responsibility we have to others -
sharing the integrity of our living principles not only physically but through
our thoughts, beliefs, motives and words. These two attributes have provided me a
tether to comfort and peace and I realized this at the end of my sophomore
year when I thought my aspiration becoming a doctor were ruined. Like many
others, personal and academic hardships drained my energy and motivation. You
know, I think college has taught us all how to put up a front but inside I felt
hopeless and disconnected from friends. However, as I let time drag me
forward I found comfort and smaller things.
It started with different opportunities as I became more involved in our college
and internship, and even joined a new gym, and don't get me wrong - I still love
Southwest. But the different experiences introduce new vigor and most importantly
deeper relationships. I became intentional with my
interactions - striked conversation first and listened more. The different stories
smiles and laughs lifted me up day by day. New joys and support systems sparked
confidence towards my pursuit in medicine and I found myself trying to
repay the positive influences I experienced. My path taught me to embrace
the moments of vulnerability as personal suffering and failure are nothing to
discount. Thus, I urge you to translate your
experiences and relationships into positive change. Practice generosity
selflessness and empathy. Let us continue to educate ourselves and listen
actively to those in need as new perspectives may refresh our livelihood
as they did with mine. To close, I want to quote the author from "When Breath
Becomes Air" Paul Kalanithi, "Human knowledge is never contained in one
person. It grows from the relationships we create between each other and the
world, and still it is never complete." And I like this because it displays a
connection between the two tethers: One, our experiences that attempt to grapple
life's anguish and two, our relationships that ground our present and guide our
future. For example, our thirst for closure - like right now - may have to
settle with bittersweet reconciliation of the past few years. But, don't feel
pressure to find an immediate sense of belonging. We deserve to relish in our
memories - cherish the dumb and embarrassing moments, the highs and lows.
Understand that fulfillment is not achieved through a plan or meeting
expectations. Rather, learn to appreciate the present - our ongoing journey - as
fulfillment is nourished by the experiences we've been fortunate to have
and the people we are thankful to know. So Class of 2020, as time drags all of us
forward, acknowledge how far you've come and how far you still can go, but don't
forget to pick others up along the way. Congratulations and Go Gators!