So how do these girls do it?
Those regular girls
that do not come from money,
how do they afford to live such a luxurious
and affluent lifestyle?
What are their secrets?
Those exact words were my thoughts
when I just started out
with my leveling up journey
when I was 19/20 years old.
It took me years and years
to figure this out
and now I'm here spilling the beans for you
in a YouTube video.
So for those of you who do not know who I am,
my name is Anna
and I run an online finishing school.
Now, in my online finishing school,
I really do speak about financial strategy in depth.
But in this video, I want to share
for those ladies who might not be part of my students
but still want to have a little bit of insights
of how it works in the financial department,
all those ladies who are living a luxurious lifestyle
but do not come from money,
how do they make it work?
This is something, ladies,
that I could not grasp for probably a few years
back in the days.
I had my foot in high society
but there was one thing I just couldn't grasp.
How come there are so many women
who don't seem to live a nine-to-five lifestyle.
They all seem to have a flexible lifestyle
where they're just kind of enjoying themselves,
traveling, working a bit here and there
and make it still go around with their finances.
Yet, I was there stuck in my nine-to-five job
that I by the way, hated.
I hated my office job so much but I put up with it
because how else was I going to level up?
But then there came a time
after I had been studying these women
for so many years,
I befriended them, I understood what their strategies was,
what their background was,
how they actually made it work.
Now, I'm not going to share with you everything
in this video because the full story
is only available for my students
but I do want to give you a little bit
of insights because I know this is going to help you
a little bit along your path.
So let's start with the basic.
Do the ladies actually work?
And I'm referring to the ladies
who are part of the affluent scene
and who do not come from money originally
but who seem to be able
to jet set around and really live the good life.
Do they work or do they not work?
Give me an answer, Anna.
So the answer, ladies,
actually quite a lot of them do work.
I also think that you should be working too
really, really hard especially in the beginning
of your journey.
This is how it really works.
So in the beginning,
when we are beginners,
we really need to focus on our leveling up
and that is usually priority one.
Because once we have leveled up
to a degree where things
are starting to run a little bit more on autopilot
for us, we're getting more and better opportunities,
we're getting noticed,
we're getting recognized,
we're getting invites,
then life becomes easier.
But to reach that stage, ladies,
you have to invest yourself.
You have to polish yourself up.
You have to follow the formula
that I teach so much in my program
because this is phase one
and a lot of women get stuck in phase one
because they don't execute it properly.
I'm not blaming anybody
and I'm not pointing fingers
but I also know that as a common trend
that people can get a little bit lazy
and lack patience
and that is a big no-go if you really want to succeed
in this particular lifestyle.
Now, let me go back to myself.
How did I do it?
I wasn't always self-employed,
I wasn't always running my own business.
I didn't always have my boyfriend providing for me
so that it didn't have to worry about money.
No. But back in the days
when I just started,
I was just a regular plain Jane
who had her nine to five
and to be quite honest with you,
there was a time when I even had two jobs.
I was working as much as I could
so that I could save up as much money as I could
to reinvest in myself.
My success has always been driven
by one fundamental
and that is to reinvest in yourself.
Ladies, you really have to put in that extra work.
It is required, especially in the beginning
because it's in the beginning
that we face the biggest uphills
and that's when we prove ourselves,
how badly do we want this?
If we want this transformation badly enough,
we are going to climb that mountain,
no matter how big or small it is
but we're gonna make it happen.
Even if it means to having to work
over time or having two jobs
or somehow having to hustle
so you have the funds
that are required for this transformation.
A lot of the times, ladies think that leveling up,
achieving an affluent lifestyle
is gonna be without any form of investment.
Not the case, I'm afraid
and so is if you want to take yourself
to the next level.
I'm sorry but it doesn't work like that.
To become more beautiful,
it costs money.
Finding the right partner for you,
it also costs money
because you have to invest in yourself.
Expanding your social circle to the elite,
that's definitely gonna cost you a little bit money.
All of these things costs
but it doesn't mean that they have to cost you a fortune,
that's not what I'm talking about.
I'm just saying that everything does have a price
and you have to really be open and willing
to pay that price.
Now, secondly, the ladies that I know
are most of the times, not always,
but most of the times are clever ladies,
who are part of the affluent society,
who leveled up, who worked hard,
who followed the formula
and meanwhile, they made sure to always save
for a rainy day.
Not necessarily only for a rainy day
but always save
because they know how things can change,
plans can change, life gives you surprises
and life sometime even give you lemons.
So they know they can always make a lemonade
out of their savings.
You get my point.
Ladies, you have to have savings on this path
and that's why you really need to work.
You really need to start this transformation
by working hard
and meanwhile, you save.
You save for that day
for when perhaps you wanna stop working
so that you can focus on your journey
with 100% and you also have to save for a rainy day
because you might meet an affluent man
who might be really treating you like a princess
and spoiling you and look after you.
But what about the day
when he actually decides to leave?
Or you wanna leave?
Then, my dear, you need a backup plan.
If you don't save, you will learn it the hard way.
Now, let's go back to how others have done it
because I've spoken about the importance
of work, savings and patience
but what about the nitty gritty,
how do all of these girls
who are living the high life,
how do they make it happen?
So when I started to do my research,
I came to a very interesting realization.
I found that actually, the majority of women
that I met, unless they were working in regular jobs,
they were majority of the times multitasking
and making their income stream happen
from various sources.
So it was never just one type of approach.
Number one, they had a lot of savings.
Number two, they made sure
that whenever they had a boyfriend in their life,
a partner, that that partner was providing for them.
Now, number three, generous friends.
Believe it or not
but once you have leveled up to a point
in high society where you have great connections
and you have a lot of generous friends,
then your generous friends,
whether it is men or women,
will actually kind of help you a little bit along the way.
They might be inviting you for trips,
they might be paying for things,
paying for outings and so on
and it's nothing strange in high society.
It's a very common practice between people.
Usually the highest earner pays
and that's it.
Like just to give you an example,
if a billionaire goes for lunch with a millionaire,
then the billionaire is mostly likely to pay the check.
It's just a little common unspoken thing
that happens in society.
So going back to who pays,
generous friends, believe it or not,
it's very, very common
and there's no funny business around that.
No matter what people or naysayers tend to say.
Then you have the generous boyfriends
that I just mentioned
and that is of course, a very, very crucial one
because the majority of the times,
women are dating somebody
or are in a serious committed relationship with somebody.
Now, lastly, the final thing that I know,
a lot of women, not everybody though,
but some, keep kind of patching up their journey with
and that is having a little bit of support from family.
I'm not saying their family are wealthy
but you do have actually a little bit of money coming in
from family who either maybe
there is some form of inheritance,
even if it's small or there's some form
of support from a mother or a father, anything.
I have seen many cases like that,
so what I'm just trying to say
is that many times, these girls,
they just make it happen through patching it up
from bits and pieces, from different types
of sources and like this,
they don't need to work full time.
Also, I forgot to say,
they might even have a part-time job.
Many times, girls are working part-time
and then the rest of the time they dedicate
to their jet-set journey,
to their transformational journey and leveling up.
Now, how can you make this happen?
And I am very much aware
that I do have a lot of you ladies with me
who are literally starting from minus zero.
Now, I know that that situation
can feel quite daunting.
I know that it might make you feel
like, what's the point?
I should just give up.
I don't have any cash
and I don't see any cash coming in soon.
This is not going to work.
Now, let me tell you one thing
and this is where you really need
to switch on your hustler mentality
if you want your life to happen.
I've noticed in life
that whenever you really want something badly in your life,
you're going to find a way to make that happen.
If you don't have the money today,
you're going to find the way how to make that money happen
and I'm not talking about any form of illegal ways.
I'm talking about things that you can stand for
and things that might require, like I said,
patience and a little bit of hustling
and a little bit of hard work.
Good things will come to those
who are patient
and there is a really nice Chinese proverb
that I really want to share with you.
I actually had to take out my phone
because I posted it on my Instagram,
so if you still don't follow me on Instagram,
you really should.
"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago,
the second best time is now."
And having said that, ladies,
this is what investing in yourself is all about.
This is what creating a hustling mentality
is all about.
Do it now, don't wait for tomorrow,
don't push it away because it's uncomfortable.
Learn how to compromise in life
and learn how to practice patience.
You will be writing to me in the future
and you'll be telling me, Anna, thank you.
I did it!
And that's exactly the words I want to hear from you.
Now, I do have another video for you
on my channel
and I really want to see you there.
The video is all about how you can start
your luxury lifestyle
or even if you have started,
how can you get more ideas to sustain it
and make it happen successfully.
And also, visit
if you have decided that now is the time
to take action and plant your tree today,
instead of regretting it in a few years.
Now, I will see you in the next video.