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MOLLY: I was sort of a good girl.

I never anticipated contracting an STD.

That was the furthest thing from my mind.

DR. GRIMES: 1 in 5 Americans

over the age of 12 have genital herpes.

And so, as you can see, these diseases are incredibly common.

I have genital herpes,

which I contracted when I was 23 years old.

My symptoms were an incredible burning sensation,

especially when I urinated.

And so I went immediately to the doctor.

DR. GRIMES: We have this misperception

that STDs belong to this fringe of society.

But the reality is we treat everyone.

It crosses racial barriers, educational barriers,

and certainly economic differences.

MOLLY: I thought that my life was basically over,

that I would never get married

and live with someone and have children.

I mean, there were so many misconceptions.

I felt shunned in a way

by people who didn't understand what it was.

So, Molly, I'm sure you have a lot of questions.

When I council my patients about how to be sexually responsible,

the first thing, of course,

is for them just to have a basic knowledge of diseases.

If you have had a new sexual partner,

then it is time to be tested.

And that is true whether or not you practice safe sex,

using a condom, because some diseases such as herpes

are spread outside of condoms.

You don't wait until you have a symptom to be tested.

So the biggest thing is to be tested

before you're intimate with somebody

and to have open conversations about that.

Telling potential sexual partners about my herpes,

I am ridiculously honest.

After a certain point, I will let them know that,

in fact, I have herpes.

I've had only one man make the choice

not to be intimate with me.

As you know, we cannot make it go away completely.

We can make each outbreak go away more quickly and hurt less.

And you'll identify triggers

within your own life that seem to make it worse.

MOLLY: I have realized that stress and emotions

have a great deal to do with my herpes.

I do things to keep myself emotionally calm

and keep my stress at a minimum.

I had many outbreaks of herpes in the first few years,

and now they're very few and far between.

An STD, just like any other disease,

should never define you.

You are not herpes.

You are a person who happens to also have herpes.

The shift from being so devastated, originally,

about my diagnosis of herpes

to the happiness I feel now about my life

developed slowly over time.

And as I became more educated, I was able to educate others.

My advice to people who are living with herpes would be

to realize that although the word "incurable"

is used with this disease, it is definitely manageable.

The Description of Molly's Story - Be Smart. Be Well.