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I am Maninder Kaur (Special Educator & Trainer)
Today's video is on respond to name
How to teach your child to respond to name?
Target of respond to name is very important
Parents used to ask when will respond to name of my child will come?
Ans is very easy respond to name should come in 12 months or you can say by 1st Birthday
whenever you call your child he or she will see at you
If your child doesn't respond in months or 1st birthday
then you should get alert
Because its a red flag or high alert sign
of developmental delay & Autism spectrum for sure
if your child is not giving respond to name
Eye contact then you should
go for a check
to developmental pediatrician,Child psychologist
or you can go to psychiatrist
if you will go to child specialist
and tell them about your problem
then there may chances or risk factor that you can
be misguided
so whenever there is problem
like eye contact,social smile & respond to name
then you should go to
Developmental Pediatrician,child psychologist
and psychiatrist
From there we can expect you will get
better guidance
now lets take an example
Child A has completed his first birthday
& child is not doing respond to name
Whenever a parent will go to specialist
with this problem they will recommend
the parent to go for BERA test
BERA test is for hearing
to check whether there is any hearing
problem with child
BERA test will clear the doubts of child
about his listening
at which frequency he or she can listen
and then you will go to specialist
with reports & if report is ok
then it means child need therapy
because listening is ok as per BERA test
Now i suppose your child BERA test is ok
and you will come to me
then approx in 15 sessions child will give
respond to name
and you have already tried you level best
for respond to name till 1st birthday or you can say 12 months
that means child doesn't value you
then at that time we will find the things which child values a lot
and that thing will be reinforcement or you can say reward
now how we will start
Most of the parents are doing
same or common mistakes
you all are doing mistakes for respond to name
you are calling you child from far away
from other room
but child is not responding
the mistake here is
we take one to one sessions
see like monday to thursday
and then group session on friday to see
whether the child is responding the same in group
i.e for generalization factor
in case he or she is responding on one to one
whether
he/she is responding in same way infront of 4-5 teachers
thats why we take group sessions on weekends
try to understand on one to one we sit very close to child
definitely you should sit
very close to you child at home
to start respond to name
You should note whenever you are
teaching your child respond to name
The room which you are using should
have very very less dis-tractors
all right?
so first of all we will start by sitting very close to child
& with very less dis-tractors
from there we will start respond to name
one more thing before starting respond to name
we should know about reward of our child before starting
Example I called REET she is not responding
then i will come very close(at her back) to REET and again
I will call REET
because at that time i can take control
of child (REET)
If you will start from far then how can you control your child
Then you will come to child & say i am calling you & you are not responding
In this much delivery of reinforcement
& reward will be delayed
& spontaneous responding will not come
So again i am saying whenever you will
start respond respond to name sit very close or you can say next to your child
example i will say REET she is not seeing & responding i will tap
her back or you will touch her face or move her face towards your face
& you will say i called you REET
You should not say any extra thing just REET
Because
processing of our child is very less
and she is not responding on name
so how can she learn to respond on sentenses
ok?
So you should say only Name like REET & tap on her back & move her face towards your face
she see your face at the same
time give her reward give something to her to eat as a reward
see reward is of many types
i will teach you in other video about rewards
but for respond to name i will tell you that
reward is not always eatable see i use
bubbles as reward
if a child will give me 1percent respond
i will start tickling the child
it can be small small activites
eatable
musical toy
it can be anything
we will start very close to child
with no distractors
next step in a structured
we will start using few distractors
like in bed room
one important thing
you will introduce any activity when child
is less occupied
If child has autism
& he or she is seeing cars
you are calling her REET REET
then she will not see you because
she is very much occupied in the wheels of a car
OK?
So make sure you induce you child
for any activity when or he or she is very less occupied
then you will see how your child respond to you
then will do in structured way like in a bed room
from some distance
then in unstructured way like i am in a kitchen
& child is in bed room
small small things you do
then respond to name will come in sessions
some will learn in 7 days some in 15 days
its upto you
how you will introduce respond to name to your child
small small things like give good reward to your child
if child is not giving eye contact
use your fingers to show your eyes
if child is not giving attention to you then tap on table,clap
first take his eye contact then teach
respond to name
respond to name & eye contact is not different activity
definately these are both different
measures you can say to diagnose
for a particular developmental delay
but whenever we will teach respond to name
eye contact will also come
both activites will work together
so will start close to child/Less gap/at the back of child
speak less
speak only name like REET REET
beacuse we are teaching respond to name
so we should speak name only
speak less
dont do deal or do contract with child if you will see at me you will get this (reward)
REET if you will see at me you will get this
This is a wrong practise
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