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I think Orthodox just means

following the Torah,

what it says.

Every experience that I go through has

a piece of my religion in it.

It always connects back to my religion.

I just live my life surrounded by God.

The torah, the Jewish bible,

begins with the letter Bet

and ends with the letter Lamed.

Together, they spell, "the heart."

This is the wedding story of

Hadassa and Zeev,

a young Jewish Orthodox couple

from Baltimore.

In two days, they will be married.

Judaism is practiced by nearly

14.4 million people.

More than two-thirds of adult

Orthodox Jews are married,

compared to about half of other Jewish adults.

Orthodox Judaism requires adherence

to the ancient laws of the Torah

in every aspect of life.

Tradition is important.

Um...

yes

is the answer.

Its a concept that may seem old-fashioned

to the secular world,

but here its a way of life

as fresh as homemade challah,

a special Jewish bread.

When you do the sugar, as you pour it in,

just have a little intention.

What do you think?

Sweetness in life.

Sweetness in life.

Im a person that really likes tradition.

I think it gives a lot of clarity

and it gives you connection.

I think its very special to do

what people did before you.

Im just watching you.

Its amazing.

In two days,

Hadassa is marrying a man

she's never held hands with,

let alone kissed.

We started dating this past June.

Dont freak out, guys.

Im a religious Jew,

so I dont really talk to guys

until Im ready to date.

Okay Zeev.

The big day!

Two more days!

Alright.

As the big day quickly approaches,

Zeev makes final preparations.

How often do women get their hair cut?

Every four to six weeks.

Yeah?

Men and women dont really talk too much

unless theyre

dating.

We only date when

were ready to get married.

I knew from the first date that

I wanted to marry her.

It was definitely love at first sight,

at least for me.

You know, hes pretty cute.

For most Jewish couples,

they dont see each other

the week before the wedding.

You write notes,

you send gifts

but you dont talk.

For Zeev and Hadassa,

absence makes the heart grow fonder

and serves as a final opportunity

to work on themselves as individuals.

The Tallit is a special prayer shawl worn

by married men during morning prayer.

The day before the wedding,

Zeevs father shows him how

to tie it for the first time.

Hadassa is so pure in her love for Hashem

and her love for God.

I see that and I want to be more,

I want to do better,

I want to be a better Jew.

Shes so great.

I hope theres a lot of giggling

in their marriage.

Because thats an important thing.

(Producer) Do you giggle often together?

Uh, sporadically.

We made it!

You got the whole suite to yourself.

You want to take the card?

According to the Jewish Orthodox faith,

a couples wedding day

is one of the holiest days of their lives

and they are considered

to be closer to God.

Today is Hadassas own

personal Yom Kippur,

or day of atonement,

and she is freed of all

transgressions and wrongdoings

something the people in her community

are here to honor.

Because of her divine status on this day,

she bestows and receives

blessings from loved ones.

Its here that she will receive Zeev

and see him for the first time

in seven days.

But first,

there are a few things he must agree to.

It says in the contract,

I will take care of her.

I will support her.”

All sorts of lovely things.

But it does not say,

I will do the dishes.”

Oh, okay.

Under Jewish law,

the ketubah solidifies the promises Zeev

is making to his future wife.

Laid to witness by

more experienced generations.

The bride and grooms mothers

break a plate to make it legal.

Mazel tov!

Zeev is ready to meet his bride

at the bedeken,

a traditional veiling ceremony.

Zeev veils Hadassa as a sign of respect

to her modesty and privacy

during this holy time.

He offers her a blessing

and his heart.

The wedding ceremony begins

under the chuppah,

a marriage canopy which symbolizes

the home they will grow together.

The bride then circles the groom seven times

to break down any walls

or barriers between them.

I think my perspective on marriage definitely

has to do with my faith.

The way we see people getting married

is that their spouse is

the other half of their soul.

A shared sip of wine

and a ring join them together.

A broken glass seals the deal.

When I get to hold my wife's hand

for the first time,

I will be jumping for joy.

Surrounded by their friends,

family, and God,

Hadassa and Zeev are married at last.

And finally,

they can have some alone time.

Behind closed doors,

Hadassa and Zeev spend their first 15 minutes

alone in the yichud,

or seclusion room,

an act that symbolizes

their newly married state.

Ladies and gentlemen,

lets welcome

Mr. and Mrs. Zeev and Hadassa Beleck.

(Cheering)

Although men and women dance separately

to avoid touching the opposite gender,

its a requirement for all

to bring joy to the bride and the groom,

a commandment the guests take very seriously.

After today, Hadassa and Zeev

will have a special place in the community.

What lies ahead is a series of firsts

and they will rely on their faith

to guide them.

Todays world is very topsy-turvy

and morals are a little skewed.

In Jewish married life,

we gain from the wisdom of the past.

And it doesnt mean that were not innovative

but it means that

within the bounds of the past,

we can move towards the future.

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