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Sometimes we end our conversations very abruptly. When we do not plan what to say, we have just

nothing to say and there is so much awkward silence between you and the person you're

talking to. Its happened to me so many times but at those times I have a saviour.

I have conversation fillers. These are the words that you can use to keep the conversation

going and not have any awkward silence between you and the person youre talking to. So

if you want to have your conversations going then keep watching this video because this

video is all about it. My name is Michelle and thank you for clicking.

So here we have some interesting conversation fillers on the board. The first one that we

have, really? This conversation filler is, of course, used when you're listening or when

you've heard news which was very surprising. so may be if one of your friends passed a

very important examination and you never expected him or her to pass that examination and he

or she tells you, hey, you know I cracked the PET. What? Really? You cracked the PET!

So this means you're surprised. Instead of just going blank like, okay that was so nice.

You don't wanna look like that. You could just be like, really? Shows all the excitement

and the joy. Maybe you're sad deep inside, may be sorry.

Okay, the next one we have is, right? Right? Which means that you're confirming something.

So you live in Southport, right? You live in Portsmouth, right? Something like that.

So when you're confirming something, to confirm. Alright, will you come to my home tomorrow

evening to pick up your stuff? Sure, I will. This is where you're confirming to someone.

Here you're asking for confirmation by saying, right? And here you're saying sure, I will

come which means you're confirming to somebody.

Great and here we have the 4th one. Oh, you did not attend your best friend's wedding

because you were sick, how awful! Which means so sad. I'm so sad about it. So sad, mean

I feel very bad for you. Its very, very awful that you could not attend your best

friend's wedding. Very sad, how awful! So sad is quite a boring way of saying that you're

sad. So you might want to say, how awful, how awful means bad, how bad it is.

Oh no. really? How could that happen? This is an utter shock. When you're really, really

shocked and you did not expect something will happen. This is expressing a lot of despair.

Its not just sadness, it's despair and frustration sometimes. So expressing frustration

is, oh no! Something that you did not want should happen, frustration.

Right let's look at the next one, you're joking. So when your best friend tells you that she's

getting married. Okay, and you're like, you're joking which means you can't be serious, really?

Are you getting married already, you're just 24. Youre joking! Which means you can't

be serious. You must be joking and then she tells you, not really, I'm very serious about

it. I'm 24 and I'm getting married and you're like what a pity! Its so sad that you are,

I feel so bad for you. Pity. Pity is you know when you have mercy on someone and you're

being very sad for them because you're thinking that they are in a very bad situation. So

if your friend is getting married at 24, she's definitely in a very difficult situation.

So it's such a pity, you feel merciful towards her.

So here we have the next one. Have you? This is when you say that I've recently tasted

pork and you're friend replies to you, have you? Which means she's confirming but it is

actually a conversation filler. Maybe she's doing something on her phone. Shes texting

somebody and you're like, hey you know what, I recently had pork and she's like, have you?

Okay, so she's just trying to keep the conversation going, even when shes doing something else.

So be smart to understand. So this is where you use an auxiliary verb, which is have,

to make a conversation filler. So this is an auxiliary verb. Okay auxiliary verb, right?

And you could also say, did you? Is it? Depending on the question that someone has asked you

or depending on the statement that someone is making. Have you? Or did you? You could

say, is it? Right? So these are certain words and expressions that you can use when you're

listening to someone to keep the conversation going on but now we have some words that you

can use when you're speaking to somebody. Let me think. So if someone asks you a question,

which you don't the exact answer to or maybe you want time or you're buying time. So if

someone asks you, may be a basic question, who is the President of this country? And

you're like, um. Let me think, it is whoever. So, you're buying time when you're saying

this statement. Youre trying to buy time. Right, so try not to use this at a quiz because

at a quiz, you will have only 10 seconds to answer and if you ask them for time to think,

the buzzer goes on and you actually lose. So use it only with your friends. I mean,

what I mean is, so this is again another way of buying time or trying to explain yourself

again. Yeah, trying to explain yourself again, re-explanation.

this one is one of the most common conversation filler, you know and you've often heard me

using, you know and sometimes also pronounce it more like, y'know, just goes like that

and it's not like you know, it's just like y'know what happened. You know, so it's just

a y actually and no you. So this is another conversation filler and it is generally used

in the beginning of a sentence or when you're sharing a news, towards the beginning. You

know, I met your sister at the mall yesterday. So that's how you start, a conversation.

What I mean is, this is again explaining yourself further after I mean, if someone still does

not understand, when you have said, I mean. You could say, what I mean is, to explain

it even further. For further explanation.

Okay, so here we have the next one, back to our topic, that we are studying, conversation

fillers today and not going into long stories. So this is when you get your attention back

to the topic which you were talking about. Sometimes it happens that youre talking

about exams and you end up talking about boyfriends with your friend. So when you want to get

back to exams, you'd say, coming back to our topic, tomorrow is our final exam and we have

not studied anything. So back to the topic, something that is not off topic.

So it's kind of nice, how did you like this lesson? Its kind of nice which means it's

towards nice. Something like nice, like so kind of, would be more like, it is nice and

this is also, this can be used throughout you know in the conversation. In the middle

of the conversation, usually, when you talk about something and you wanna explain its

type, thats when you use kind of.

So these are the expressions that you have learnt when you're listening to someone. You

could go like, really? Right, sure, how awful! And oh no! Did that really happen? You must

be joking which means, you can't be serious. What a pity! Which means you feel so empathetic

towards somebody. Have you? Really? Have you done that before? something like that and

these are the expressions that you would use when you are speaking to someone and youre

running out of words or you're buying time to think, then you would say, let me think.

I mean, you know that's how you start a conversation. What I mean is, when you're trying to, explain

something further and something when you're going off topic, you would say, coming back

to our topic, the main idea of the conversation is, and kind of, it's kind of nice, when you're

trying to explain a type of something.

So, this is how you can keep your conversations going. You don't need to experience more of

that awkward silence and think of more topics that you can talk about to your friends so

that you have more topics and more conversation fillers to fill in the air. I hope it was

enjoyable for you as it was for me, please come back for more lessons with me.

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